Given to Hospitality
INTRODUCTION: The Old Testament practice of hospitality is given to us in the New Testament as an important part of our love to others. Hospitality refers to the practice of treating others as special guests. Both host and guest come from the same root word that is used for hospitality, hospital, hospice, hostel, and hotel. It means to receive some as a guest and actively take care of their needs for rest and refreshment.
Someone has made a distinction between entertainment and hospitality. Entertainment emphasizes things while hospitality emphasizes the person and particular care for them. In scripture, hospitality is especially practiced with strangers, travelers, and those in special need (like the poor). Jesus particularly enjoins us to reach out to the needy (Luke 14:12-14 [12] Then said he also to him that bade him, When thou makest a dinner or a supper, call not thy friends, nor thy brethren, neither thy kinsmen, nor thy rich neighbours; lest they also bid thee again, and a recompence be made thee.
[13] But when thou makest a feast, call the poor, the maimed, the lame, the blind:
[14] And thou shalt be blessed; for they cannot recompense thee: for thou shalt be recompensed at the resurrection of the just.
See All...); to those who cannot recompense us. However, as seen in 1 Peter 4:9Use hospitality one to another without grudging.
See All..., we are also to practice hospitality with one another.
- Romans 12:13Distributing to the necessity of saints; given to hospitality.
See All... Distributing to the necessity of saints; given to hospitality. - 1 Timothy 3:2A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach;
See All... A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach; - 1 Timothy 5:10Well reported of for good works; if she have brought up children, if she have lodged strangers, if she have washed the saints' feet, if she have relieved the afflicted, if she have diligently followed every good work.
See All... Well reported of for good works; if she have brought up children, if she have lodged strangers, if she have washed the saints' feet, if she have relieved the afflicted, if she have diligently followed every good work. - Titus 1:8But a lover of hospitality, a lover of good men, sober, just, holy, temperate;
See All... But a lover of hospitality, a lover of good men, sober, just, holy, temperate; - Hebrews 13:2Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.
See All... Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares. - 1 Peter 4:9Use hospitality one to another without grudging.
See All... Use hospitality one to another without grudging.
The story in Genesis 18:1-8 [1] And the LORD appeared unto him in the plains of Mamre: and he sat in the tent door in the heat of the day;
[2] And he lift up his eyes and looked, and, lo, three men stood by him: and when he saw them, he ran to meet them from the tent door, and bowed himself toward the ground,
[3] And said, My LORD, if now I have found favour in thy sight, pass not away, I pray thee, from thy servant:
[4] Let a little water, I pray you, be fetched, and wash your feet, and rest yourselves under the tree:
[5] And I will fetch a morsel of bread, and comfort ye your hearts; after that ye shall pass on: for therefore are ye come to your servant. And they said, So do, as thou hast said.
[6] And Abraham hastened into the tent unto Sarah, and said, Make ready quickly three measures of fine meal, knead it, and make cakes upon the hearth.
[7] And Abraham ran unto the herd, and fetcht a calf tender and good, and gave it unto a young man; and he hasted to dress it.
[8] And he took butter, and milk, and the calf which he had dressed, and set it before them; and he stood by them under the tree, and they did eat.
See All... provides a wonderful example of hospitality. There are several precepts that apply to all times in this passage:
- HOSPITALITY TAKES NO THOUGHT FOR CONVENIENCE
- The strangers arrived “in the heat of the day” (Genesis 18:1And the LORD appeared unto him in the plains of Mamre: and he sat in the tent door in the heat of the day;
See All...) when the people of the Middle East would find a place of shade and rest until the sun began to drop toward the horizon. They worked early and late, but avoided the worst of the midday heat. - This did not stop Abraham from rushing to serve them (Genesis 18:2And he lift up his eyes and looked, and, lo, three men stood by him: and when he saw them, he ran to meet them from the tent door, and bowed himself toward the ground,
See All...) - Hospitality does the inconvenient for the sake of others.
- HOSPITALITY RUSHES TO SERVE OTHERS
- Abraham, Sarah, and the young man all work with haste to serve the three men.
- Abraham “ran” to meet them (Genesis 18:2And he lift up his eyes and looked, and, lo, three men stood by him: and when he saw them, he ran to meet them from the tent door, and bowed himself toward the ground,
See All...) - Abraham “hastened” into the tent (Genesis 18:6And Abraham hastened into the tent unto Sarah, and said, Make ready quickly three measures of fine meal, knead it, and make cakes upon the hearth.
See All...) - Sarah made the cakes “quickly” (Genesis 18:6And Abraham hastened into the tent unto Sarah, and said, Make ready quickly three measures of fine meal, knead it, and make cakes upon the hearth.
See All...) - Abraham “ran” unto the heard (Genesis 18:7And Abraham ran unto the herd, and fetcht a calf tender and good, and gave it unto a young man; and he hasted to dress it.
See All...) - The young man “hasted” to dress the calf (Genesis 18:7And Abraham ran unto the herd, and fetcht a calf tender and good, and gave it unto a young man; and he hasted to dress it.
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- HOSPITALITY PRACTICES FULL HUMILITY
- Abraham “bowed himself toward the ground” (Genesis 18:2And he lift up his eyes and looked, and, lo, three men stood by him: and when he saw them, he ran to meet them from the tent door, and bowed himself toward the ground,
See All...). - Although this was a visit from the Lord and we are not to bow to our guests today, it still teaches us the importance of humility in the practice of hospitality. Hospitality puts others first and ourselves last.
- Luke 14:7-11 [7] And he put forth a parable to those which were bidden, when he marked how they chose out the chief rooms; saying unto them,
[8] When thou art bidden of any man to a wedding, sit not down in the highest room; lest a more honourable man than thou be bidden of him;
[9] And he that bade thee and him come and say to thee, Give this man place; and thou begin with shame to take the lowest room.
[10] But when thou art bidden, go and sit down in the lowest room; that when he that bade thee cometh, he may say unto thee, Friend, go up higher: then shalt thou have worship in the presence of them that sit at meat with thee.
[11] For whosoever exalteth himself shall be abased; and he that humbleth himself shall be exalted.
See All... – Take the lowest room and put others first. - HOSPITALITY TAKES THOUGHT FOR THE NEEDS OF OTHERS
- Abraham took care that their feet were washed, their bodies were rested, and their hunger was satisfied (Genesis 18:4-5 [4] Let a little water, I pray you, be fetched, and wash your feet, and rest yourselves under the tree:
[5] And I will fetch a morsel of bread, and comfort ye your hearts; after that ye shall pass on: for therefore are ye come to your servant. And they said, So do, as thou hast said.
See All...). - Even more, Abraham sought that they might “comfort ye your hearts” (Genesis 18:5And I will fetch a morsel of bread, and comfort ye your hearts; after that ye shall pass on: for therefore are ye come to your servant. And they said, So do, as thou hast said.
See All...). He was caring for the inner man as well. - True hospitality is not necessarily having others over for meals; it is caring for the needs of others and attempting to supply them whatever they may be.
- HOSPITALITY WORKS AS SERVICE TO GOD
- Abraham confidently stated: “for therefore are ye come to your servant.” He saw their coming as a providential work of God to give him the opportunity to minister to them.
- We should also count any opportunity for hospitality as an opportunity given by God to serve Him.
- HOSPITALITY DOES MORE THAN IS NECESSARY
- Everything in this story shows Abraham to be doing all that could reasonably be expected and then more. He promised them a “morsel of bread” (Genesis 18:5And I will fetch a morsel of bread, and comfort ye your hearts; after that ye shall pass on: for therefore are ye come to your servant. And they said, So do, as thou hast said.
See All...) and then got them an abundance of cakes (Genesis 18:6And Abraham hastened into the tent unto Sarah, and said, Make ready quickly three measures of fine meal, knead it, and make cakes upon the hearth.
See All...), a “calf tender and good” (Genesis 18:7And Abraham ran unto the herd, and fetcht a calf tender and good, and gave it unto a young man; and he hasted to dress it.
See All...), and butter and milk (Genesis 18:8And he took butter, and milk, and the calf which he had dressed, and set it before them; and he stood by them under the tree, and they did eat.
See All...). - Hospitality goes beyond the basic needs a person has and oversupplies them for the sake of being a blessing.
- HOSPITALITY TAKES CARE OF OTHERS FIRST
- When Abraham brought all these things out to his visitors, “he stood by them under the tree, and they did eat” (Genesis 18:8And he took butter, and milk, and the calf which he had dressed, and set it before them; and he stood by them under the tree, and they did eat.
See All...). He did not partake himself, but cared only for their needs. - Hospitality cares for the others first and only then for personal needs.
CONCLUSION: We need to learn to look upon hospitality as spiritual service to the Lord. Perhaps this is best illustrated in the judgment of the nations.
Matthew 25:34Then shall the King say unto them on his right hand, Come, ye blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world:
See All... Then shall the King say unto them on his right hand, Come, ye blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world: 35 For I was an hungred, and ye gave me meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me drink: I was a stranger, and ye took me in: 36 Naked, and ye clothed me: I was sick, and ye visited me: I was in prison, and ye came unto me. 37 Then shall the righteous answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee an hungred, and fed thee? or thirsty, and gave thee drink? 38 When saw we thee a stranger, and took thee in? or naked, and clothed thee? 39 Or when saw we thee sick, or in prison, and came unto thee? 40 And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.